"I Read Your Blog"

I suppose it was bound to happen sooner or later. I fellow pastor actually said to me, "I read your blog." What's more, he seemed to like what he had read. My first thought was, "now isn't that nice?" My second thought was, "Is there anything in there that might be a bit too revealing?" Ok, I know that second question makes me sound a bit paranoid, but I have heard of more than one person who seemed to think of their blog as a private journal instead of what it really is, a public forum.

I have thought off and on about that encounter for a couple of days now and it has reminded me about why I post a blog. I see this as a way to let a few people in on my somewhat private thoughts. There just isn't enough time to say these sorts of things from the pulpit, and besides that, not all are or will be proper pulpit fare. What's more the audience for this blog are a select group. You see, you really have to want to know what I'm thinking to take the time to look it up. Let's face it, a number of folks in the typical Sunday morning crowd are not all that curious about what the pastor thinks. They want to hear a good Bible message, sing some songs, put in their check, and briefly fellowship with a few friends. Who would want to add to that list, the exploration of the pastor's psyche? Only the few who really see their relationship with that pastor as a two way street. It is not just a matter of what he can do for them, or for the church, but perhaps what they can do for him that would make all of them a more effective team.

So, for the few, I say thank you and I hope that this little window will allow you to see me, and what I am about, a bit more clearly.

The Word On The Street

I am sure that most everyone has heard the expression, "the word on the street." It is a way of saying what people are talking about, and it sounds so much better than saying what they are gossiping about! Truth is, people will talk and it isn't always gossip. That word gossip carries a negative, even menacing sort of connotation. When someone gossips they either intend to hurt someone or they don't really care if they do. It is hard to understand how a Christian could ever be so calloused as to do such a thing, and yet, sometimes, we do.

Now, as I said, people will talk. My caution is simply this, is what I am talking about gossip? Could it be hurtful to someone or is it being given with a careless disregard for the feelings of others? If you have to say yes to either of those questions, then why are you talking about it in the first place?

I heard a friend say once about a mutual acquaintance, "When that fellah dies, there won't be one secret in the casket with him!" The reason that is true is this man never seemed to think it was wrong to "share" whatever came his way. He never seemed to ask those two questions I posed earlier.

Spurgeon, in speaking to his ministerial students, once commented that every minister needed a "blind eye and a deaf ear." Yes, there is always going to be a "word on the street," but it may be wisdom to turn a deaf ear to it.

The Strength Of Weak Times

Yesterday had all the makings of a train wreck. I don't really know why, but I just had a sense of foreboding as I left my office for the Sunday morning service. The attendance was down, and some of the most personally uplifting people in the church were not present. On top of all that, I was not all that confident of my sermon. I also have a real antagonist who just seems to glare at me through most of the services. I can almost read this disgruntled church member's mind. The usual message is "How long is this going to take?"

Now, that hardly sets the stage for a great message, and I am the last one to ask if one of my messages approaches greatness, but to use the biblical phrase, I delivered my soul. I really think it was a direct answer to prayer. After the service I recalled Paul's statement in 2 Corinthians 12:10 which says in part, "For when I am weak, then I am strong." I got some of the most sincere compliments on that message that I have ever received. I walked back to the parsonage thinking, it really must have ministered to people.

Now, why had I been so down beforehand? Some might suggest it was the work of the Devil, and they might be right. I prefer to think it was a lesson from the Lord. Just because I am not doing all that great, it doesn't mean the Lord can't use what is sincerely offered. That is also an illustration that in spite of the fact that I am the one standing the pulpit, it really isn't about me. Maybe those that were blessed saw more of the Lord and less of me. I hope so.

Gym Membership

Today was, hopefully, the beginning of a new pattern of regular exercise at the gym. I have been a member for a little over two years now and I would have to say that my use of the facility has been sporadic. I usually will get into a pattern of going five days a week and then after about a month something will break the pattern. I don't really know why, but there will just be something that makes not going today easier if I didn't go yesterday.

All that being said, I have been there regularly enough to notice a pattern. I have been faithfully working away on the elliptical machine when someone comes in and signs up. You see them over the next month or so and then they disappear. I friend of mine told me that he bought a year membership and only went three times! I hope he got a great workout those times because he certainly paid a high price for them!

Why do we do that sort of thing? We pay for something and then don't get the benefit of it, even joke about avoiding it! If I knew the absolute answer to that I would write a book about it and make enough money to buy the gym. What I can say from my experience is that priority is critical. Just how high on the "To Do" list is working out? For me that translates into what I do first. In fact, I have found that when I determine to go to the gym first thing in the morning I am usually more successful in creating that pattern which all the exercise folks say is so important in improving overall health.

So, let me ask you, would you benefit from working out regularly? That is an important question, but the follow up is perhaps even more so, how high a priority will you set on this? Almost all of us would answer yes to the first question. How you answer the second question will determine if it is worth doing at all.

Organization

I admit it, I have a thing for organization. Someone famously said, "a place for everything, and everything in its place." I have to admit that there is just something about working to get all my books in just the right order, my papers in just the right file, and a large pile of things "weeded out" and assigned to the trash. The other day I had one of those unusual days where no one would expect to see me. It had snowed, a wet, heavy snow. Traffic was at a crawl and I could invoke the "absolution of the snow" to justify my time in the office. I really enjoyed seeing everything "organized."

Now, typically I will do this sort of thing about once a year, and this was a bit early in the year for me to take on the task, but, as I said, the opportunity presented itself. Somewhere in the process it occurred to me that my life is something like my office. There are times that I need organizing. Somethings (maybe priorities?) need to reordered, other things are out of place and need to be put in the right file (read goals or ambitions), and finally some things just need to be chucked!

I have to admit, it is more difficult to organize myself than it is to organize my office. It takes time and typically time without distractions. I had the luxury of a "snow day" for my office. I think wisdom would be to just take a personal organization day, regardless of the weather.

Baptized?

It was early one week day when I got an unusual phone call. A pleasant sounding young lady had an inquiry. She wanted to know if we kept records of baptisms? The answer to that is both yes and no. I know that some churches keep a sort of "accession book" which notes when anyone is baptized or when someone is voted into the church membership. Yes, we have a membership roll, but no, we don't have a book where we just note when someone is baptized.

So far, so good, then she hit me with a follow up question that I had a hard time getting my mind around. "Well, I might have gotten baptized there, but I really don't remember. I was hoping you could clear that up for me." My first thought was that she had a recollection of getting baptized, but was unsure about which church had performed this ordinance. No, she was unsure if she had ever been baptized and thought that if she had, it would have been at the church I serve.

Baptism is supposed to be a symbolic identification with the death, burial, and resurrection of Christ. If you can forget whether you did that, then do you really understand its significance?

All of this was running in the back of my mind as I assured this young lady that I would look into our records. My hope is that I can find some record of her, or her family, which would give me the hope of making a connection. Perhaps I can point her in the direction of a real relationship with God. She mentioned that she had not really "been in church" since childhood. Who knows, maybe this curiosity of hers was planted by God? I don't know about her past, but I hope there can be a relationship between her and God in the future.

Elections And Their Commercials

Well, the election has come and gone. I have to admit that I will be glad to not be getting "robo-calls" from candidates and those that endorse them. I will also be glad to have all of the attack ads off the TV. Now, it is not that I don't mind politics, it is just that so many of the attack ads are just stupid. I wish politician would learn the simple lesson that the most memorable way to get across a message is just to either be very straight forward, without being sanctimonious, or to be genuinely funny. The only example I saw of the latter was in an ad against the mayor of Winnipeg Manitoba. They actually have a clip of this guy in a soccer match where he kicks a young player in the face! The commercial went viral and is high on the list of Youtube viewings. Now that is political advertisement! I suppose it is not very substantive, but it certainly is memorable and in politics that is half the battle.

So, here is to all those that spend millions of advertising dollars. I am sure the TV, radio, and newspaper people love you, but could you spend a little more money and come up with some better commercials? If you have no sense of humor then just be straight with the public and tell them what you want to do. Be specific without being a policy wonk. If, on the other hand, you do have some sense of what will bring a smile to our faces then by all means do so. The Lord knows we could all use a good laugh, and who knows it might just win you some votes. Really good humor is a sign of intelligence and the world needs smart folks at the helm. Prove you are one of them by finding a humorous way to get your message across.